August 14, 2008
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Reality Check for Dingydarla
The cards suggest that you could be on the threshold of a healing crisis. You definitely are on that threshold, but it is not clear whether you will willingly step on through toward healing, or drag your feet and try to pull back from the crisis aspect of it. In some senses, there really is no way to avoid the process, but you have a choice regarding how easy you make it on yourself. I’m not being flip or sarcastic when I say that resistance is futile.
Spiritual development that has been ongoing for years, now threatens your emotional equilibrium and the comfort and stability you have found in your home life and family. Trying to keep the lid on memories, thoughts, and dreams can be only partially successful as your unconscious development becomes more conscious. Your safest and most productive course would be to embrace change, accept reality (What is, IS.) and seek, through forgiveness and love, to transcend the stuff you have tried to bury.
Ironically, your dread and hesitation are much harder to bear than the “crisis” of change would be. Physically, emotionally, and spiritually, you are ready for this. Only some habits of mind are holding you back. Going ahead will undoubtedly stir things up, disturb the status quo, and require some effort to work through, but doing it willingly and unhesitatingly can give you a head start in that direction.
As I said, you are ripe for the transition. One big payoff you could expect down the line is a much greater realization of your personal power. Spiritually, your connection with Spirit becomes less earth-bound and social (as you mentioned), and becomes more of an inner, personal communion.
Regarding your question about your calling, you would know more than anyone about that. Look here, for more on this topic.
Comments (8)
Is this a health related healing crisis with myself? As my hair has been falling out (alot everyday) and would you suggest I seek a dr? Or do you see this as more to do with mental healing? This reading to me feels like your cards are seeing an illness in myself, which does not surprise me at all. I get angry and overwhelmed with this life of stay at home mom, and internalize things and wish I would get sick or something, as a way out. I think that makes me sound crazy.
I can not find your pay pal button anymore. Where shall I send compensation?
@Dingydarla - ”Crazy,” (a very inexact term, don’t you think?) is a broad continuum. Lots of things are crazier than wishing disability onto yourself, but, yes, that’s a self-destructive attitude. My oracle says it would be to your advantage to see a doctor about the hair loss. It could be nutritional or hormonal… could be a number of things, none of them beneficial. One really crazy thing about our culture is that we tend to think of body and mind separately. They work together in feedback loops. That healing crisis could start with a decision, a bit more confidence or hope, or with some supplement or medication that gives you more energy, and from there, spread to your whole being.
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Thank you very much, Light and Love, Darla
Hello Kathy,
After my reading with you, I made a dr.s appt, saw him discussed my concern about my hairloss. He ran a big battery of blood tests and had me come back yesterday (friday) to discuss the results. He says I am fine. . .Cholesterol is high.. so he gave meds. and my thyroid was a little low so he adjusted This just doesn’t feel to me to be a major healing crisis. I couldn’t very well say to him I had a card reading and this is what she said. Do you have a closer proximity as to where the major healing crisis lies? And where I should direct the dr.s to look?
@Dingydarla - I had two reasons for suggesting you go to the doc: ethically and legally, I must not put a client’s health at risk, and… when you asked if you should see a doctor, I asked an oracle and the answer was yes. Even just a little thyroid imbalance can have a big effect on energy and mood. If you don’t feel better with the “adjusted” meds, you might need to get a second opinion, or at least talk to a pharmacist about side effects of your meds.
Hair loss can come from toxins, hormonal imbalance, or from stress, as well as from various disease states. The one thing you have the most control over right now is stress. Remember that stress is not what happens to you, it is how you react to what happens. Here is a good resource for stress relief.
One other thing: I did not refer to a “major… crisis,” and I think you could have read, “healing crisis” and thought “health crisis.” They are not the same thing. Healing crises can be like the fever spike that breaks a low-grade infection, or like the psychotic break that brings years of neurotic misery to an end. In the cards, I saw an emotional situation where you were hesitating to make a decision or take a step that would benefit you greatly. Other cards associated with it suggested that your physical and mental health are all tied together with that situation, but I did not get any specific sense of what the exact situation is. Maybe you know.
If this doesn’t ring bells and bring clarity, and you want me to seek more information about that situation, let me know.
I only just today read this answer.
I can’t help but wonder if a slip up in my sobriety is what you saw. Or if this reading gave me my ‘excuse’ to fuck up. Within days of this last responce from me I went out to dinner with some friends and my husband and the evening proceeded into me smoking speed for the first time in years. I was so ill for about 1 week following this incidence. The experience presented me with about 1000 and 1 reasons why I actively choose to stay clean from drugs. I beat the crap out of myself mentally and my body responded by manifesting sickness. I think you are right I interpeded what you said *healing crisis* as a health crisis.
I have an appt with a dermatologist regarding my hair, this was whrere my dr suggested I start. Personally, I feel that the hairloss is hormone related. I have suffered for years with extreme pms, now being medically reclassified as PMDD Premenstrual dysphoric disorder .
Does you oracle give you any information about my son Lucas and my relationship together ? My greatest challenges seem to be related to the way he and I relate. Do you read phychic auras? AS I really wonder what his looks like.
I read you almost everyday,(susu) and am sorry to hear about your little fall off the chair. I sit on a kitchen chair, which does me in daily. So I relate to the chair issue. I have thanked the universe for the comfortable computer chair that is going to manifest for you in recent days.
I would love to have your opinion regarding Palin, and what you know about her. And I am curious about your thoughts on the global climate change situation.???
Peace to you, Darla
@Dingydarla -
I hope your drug relapse was the “healing crisis” that convinces you to stay clean for life.
Our old steel computer chair is comfortable enough… or will be when these bruises heal.
I don’t see auras, and I will do a reading for your relationship with Lucas.
I did write about Sarah Palin.
@Dingydarla - I wrote more about Palin again today.